Rules

DRESSCODE

Dress to impress. And not only the Doorbitch. If you want to attract attention and please other people, then a nice outfit is simply part of it. A woman who has spent hours in front of the mirror doesn't necessarily feel honored when a man in jeans and sneakers hits on her and thinks he can land her that way. For men, it tends to be harder to find the right outfit. There are more tips for this at http://www.lalafetishclub.de.

The exact dress code can vary at different events, so it's always important to check beforehand to avoid being turned away at the door. There are events where a suit or evening dress is mandatory, but also those where it should be a bit more fetish-heavy and a suit is not allowed. Please always read the description here on Joyclub.

RESPECT AND TOLERANCE

Not every sexual orientation, fetish, figure, outfit etc. pleases you. However, we all expect to be met with kindness and let us be as we want to be. That is simply what makes the Grande Opera. That everyone can pursue their desires without being looked at askance or even condemned for it. As long as no one is affected and everything is done in agreement, whatever we like is allowed.

DISCRETION

The fact is, even though in the 21st century you might think that going to a frivolous club is not an issue, not every employer, parent or circle of friends is equally casual about it. Therefore, we ask you to be a little tactful if you ever run into someone you know from another context or encounter a playmate from the club on the street. Therefore, there is a strict cell phone and photo ban in the Grande Opera.

CELL PHONE BAN

In the checkroom you can take a look at your cell phone to check if the babysitter has called or the girlfriend you are waiting for. Otherwise, if you are caught with your cell phone, you may have to leave the party. Unfortunately, nowadays you can't see whether a video is being made or not. Therefore, the consistent rule is: no cell phones in the Grande Opera.

CLOSED DOORS AND CURTAINS

All guests are curious when they come to the Grande Opera for the first time. So a closed door can be tempting and you want to find out what's behind it. But... a closed door or curtain means that the people behind it want to have their peace and do not want to be disturbed. This must be respected.

If someone opens a door while you want to have your peace and quiet, it is usually enough to politely point out what a closed door means. New guests sometimes simply do not know this yet and curiosity then wins.

BODY HYGIENE

Showering and using deodorant are a matter of course for most people. But still, we think it's a topic worth mentioning. If you can't wash your clubwear at home because you don't want your family to see it, please take it to the cleaners once in a while. A neat appearance and a nice scent is not only more pleasant for other guests. It increases your chances of meeting new people.

SAFER SEX

Play safe, sane and consensual, as they say in the BDSM scene. Contraception, washed hands and mutual consent are basic requirements for sizzling encounters in the club.

Games in the BDSM area are very welcome in the Grande Opera. Bloody games or games with excrement, however, have no place in a club.

DISTANCE & DECENCY

In the playrooms it can sometimes get pretty hot. Uninvited touching, however, is a reason for immediate expulsion and an absolute house ban. The rule is: Ask first, then touch.

When flirting or getting to know someone, it can be a nice conversation with "please" and "thank you" and not just "fuck?

COUPLE AREA

One area of the club is only for couples (and single ladies). A sign in front of the door points this out brightly and cannot be missed. Even if the partner is on the dance floor: a man alone in this area is not welcome. Just take your partner with you or ask a nice lady at the bar to take a look around with you if you are curious.

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